Could The Lack Of Authenticity Be A Factor In Feeling Lonely

I have been very curious about all the talk of loneliness. Feelings of being lonely. So I wanted to better understand what might be going on.

For me and from all that I have researched and understand at this point, it seems that people experiencing loneliness are mostly experiencing certain perspectives that are not positive ones. Like seeking attention and or pleasure from others, external things and not seeking the deeper love and creativity that comes from within each of us. I also like to call this positive solitude. A time for contemplation, reflection, and creativity. A time where we feel calm, and a time where we feel greater pleasure and meaning in everything. Truly present in each moment of our lives. Highly curious about all the opportunities in each experience as they unfold.

Loneliness seems to be a disconnect and lack of acceptance of our own truth and reality. This is purely a state of mind that can be shifted. The ease or difficulty one can experience this shifting is on a sliding spectrum. For some, it will FEEL like it isn't even possible and for others, it is as easy as, understanding that, they choose what they want to FEEL and experience.

The more that you want to feel less lonely the more that you must become more authenticly you. Anything else is like a codependent relationship that never brings you your truth and connection. In other words, you will continue to and or try to fit in, instead of ever truly belonging. For when we are authentically ourself, we belong, and therefore cannot be lonely. Love Lead Play